A well-defined distance on the parameter space is key to evaluating estimators, ensuring consistency, and building confidence sets. While there are typically standard distances to adopt in a continuous space, this is not the case for combinatorial parameters such as graphs that represent statistical models. Defined on the graphs alone, existing proposals like the structural Hamming distance ignore the structure of the model space and can thus exhibit undesirable behaviors. We propose a model-oriented framework for defining the distance between graphs that is applicable across different graph classes. Our approach treats each graph as a statistical model and organizes the graphs in a partially ordered set based on model inclusion. This induces a neighborhood structure, from which we define the model-oriented distance as the length of a shortest path through neighbors, yielding a metric in the space of graphs. We apply this framework to probabilistic undirected graphs, causal directed acyclic graphs, probabilistic completed partially directed acyclic graphs, and causal maximally oriented partially directed acyclic graphs. We analyze the theoretical and empirical behaviors of model-oriented distances and draw comparison with existing distances. Algorithmic tools are also developed for computing and bounding our distances.
